

This scripture in Malachi address how a husband should treat his wife.ġ0Have we not all one Father? Has not one God created us? Why then do we deal faithlessly and treacherously each against his brother, profaning the covenant of our fathers? 11Judah has been faithless and dealt treacherously, and an abomination has been committed in Israel and in Jerusalem for Judah has profaned the holy sanctuary of the Lord which He loves, and has married the daughter of a foreign god. Pride rises up and keeps us from making the first move. The only thing that stands between us and our ability to do what God tells us to do is our flesh.

even when you are not outwardly arguing, you let thoughts constantly run through your heat about all these things they do to you that you wish they wouldn’t do. If you are always nit-picking, fighting, and arguing with each other, you will wear each other out. We need to understand that if we are not going to follow God’s way, then we are opening doors for the devil to come in to kill, steal, and destroy. If you do not work at your marriage, you are not going to have a good one.Īvoid getting a loose attitude toward marriage. Once tat thing or someone belong to us we act a different way.We need to treat our spouses as if we are courting them every day of our marriage. It is amazing how differently we act when we were trying to get something from how we treat that something we were trying to get when we finally posses it. So why don’t we do this for the person we actually loved enough to marry? What married couple can keep that up!? We feel that giving up the things we enjoy to do is worth it to spend the time with the person we are falling in love with. You want to spend every waking moment with them. He seems to only have eyes for you, and you for him. It’s amazing how people treat each other when they’re dating compared to the way they treat each other after they get married. That honeymoon phase will most of the time end and if you remember to always treat your marriage as important you may just make it through. As you working this out you must hold your marriage in honor and treat each other as fine china precious. The bible says that we become one flesh meaning it is a process and will take time. The minute you are married you are legally one, but becoming one is up to you both and God. God was One Who brought a woman for him, and He joined the two together and said that the two shall become one flesh. God was the One Who told Adam that he needed a helpmate. Looking back on the scripture of Hebrews 13:4 we see that our marriage relationship should be honored in the home.
